This book mainly talks about the connection between individuals when they are texting other than when they are in each others presence. When you are texting someone you don’t have to see that persons emotions when you send a text. People are so comfortable with texting because they can say things and not get an immediate reaction rather than if they were in person that reaction would be right away. Texting also can be a sense of relief for people who don’t want to conversation with that individual in person. As the book says, not too close and not too far away which basically means the people who are crying are at the perfect distance when conversing. Some feel like they can have a meaningful conversation without actually having that conversation in person, which can more likely cause problems within that relationship. People rely so much in texting, they don’t know they might be doing harm to the relationships they think are going great.